Falling down is an accident, staying down is your choice -
get up, dust yourself off and do your thing!
We all have situations where we make crazy decisions and end up on out rear ends - sometimes literally! We are hard on ourselves, we judge ourselves we beat ourselves up over it. Why?
There can be many reasons why we are mean to ourselves. Mostly it is our expectations that cause this effect.
What if you just decided instead to look at the situation you have just been through and stood up dusted yourself off and start again without any judgement at all. Keep what you have learned and apply it on your next go.
It has taken me a long time to figure that out.
Now when something doesn't work out the way I want it too, I move on. I figure I am not going to be on the planet forever in this body. I am not going to waste my time staying on my butt. I am going to get up and work on achieving my goal. I am going to allow events in my life to shape my goal to make it a richer and greater goal.
So spending time spinning out scenarios of what has happened is just going to hold you back from what you want to achieve. Instead spin out scenarios of your achievement(s). Make goals that are achievable and be patient as your goals are achieved.
Let go of your grudges, frustration and develope strategies that are going to assist, uplift and get you to the place you want to be. Celebrate each step, love yourself enough to be kind to yourself when something doesn't work out. This includes those love relationships that don't work out. Be grateful for the time spent and look forward to the next greatest, relationship you are going to have.
So if you fall down, choose to get up dust off all those thoughts, ideas and energies that don't serve you and move forward to the next step in your life with enthusiasm and joy in your heart! When you do this, your life can only get better, richer and more wondrous than it has been!
Keep your heart open and aligned with the energy of love!